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1. Judge women by photos. Glamourous photos, photos as if they are from women’s magazine attract their attention. It is interesting but 80 percent of letters are received by 20 percent of women. But they are not more beautiful, they are not more interesting than others. They have just better pictures than others. 

Men do not pay attention to psychological test result ,to compatibility. But they will live with a woman, not with pictures. They will be unhappy if they have beautiful wife that is always makes rows or constantly nagging and does not want to sleep with them. 

Quite recently I talked to a man from Spain, he was complaining that he had got acquainted by Internet with several Russian ladies, they were completely breathtaking in their pictures, but when he came to meet them they were just average, not superordinary not like those models on the podiums. 

He was walking along the streets of St-Petersburg and saw many beautiful Russian girls walking along the street, they were not in hurry, talked with their friends, lauphed a lot. Why then did he meet Russian ladies who were beautiful in the pictures, but were tired, dull, not funny? Yes, it can happen also. If a girl exausts herself with work (she has, for example, to care alone for her child or she needs to rent an apartmnet and it is very expensive in Russia ) she looks not her best, and you can’t imagine how she changes after rest or after she does not need to work so hard. By accident, all the Russian girls that he met were hard working ones and he saw them after full working day (in one case after a night shift). And he saw in the street Russian girls who had holidays or were students and so had vacations or even does not work at all as they had boyfriends who cared for them. That’s where from such a difference! 

2. The second mistake the men who are looking for a Russian bride do is the result of this also. Many men look for models in appearance, they want to be an envy of all their friends. But they want to live with normal girls-warm, kind-hearted, faithful.

But most girls who look like models do not want real relationship, they want just men’s admiration, they want to be the center of attention. But they do not need closeness, intimacy, warmth. 

The second reason is that even if there is such a paragon who combines model appearance with warmth and comfort. They are very rare. We have a joke about it:

Two men are sitting near a fireplace. One man says looking in the fire. I was never married in my life. 

- Why? 

- I was alwasy searching for a perfect woman for me. 

- And? Did not you find her? 

- No, I found her. But I was not a perfect man for her. 

It is a sad joke but I have met some men who were acting like this and I saw them on different sites for more than 10 years.

3. The next mistake is a choice! Men just can’t stop (some women are into this also). The best is an enemy of good enouph.They find someone, meet, everything is all right but they continue to look and look for new women. They are poisoned by an idea that maybe somewhere there is a person with whom it is better, who is more interesting. 

4. Men register to the site, but they do not want to place any photo there or they place a photo where it is impossible to see them or they put terrible photos. Some men are under illusion that pictures do not mean anything for women. It is men who choose by pictures, but women prefer them to write clever words, write about their profession, their hobbies. Yes, it is good when you write a lot about you, but for women a lot is determined by your pictures. They do not want men to look like models (in fact, men-models will most likely frighten them away, but they want to see your smile, to see your eyes, to feel calmness and reliability that comes from you, for some it is important to see you in your home. And only then they will read about your hobbies, about your interests and what you like. They are often easy victims of scammers - scammers do not pay attention to pictures and ready to answer or write to them themselves without asking for new pictures. 

5. About 50 percent of men who register on the site prefer to sign on and then wait for Russian beautiful girls to write to them. Guess who has more letters, more choice and more chances to find their love, these 50 percent who are just sitting and waiting for their dream girl to write to them or men who are active themselves, who search themselves and who answer also women who write to them? Yes, the second group of men has much higher chances, especially if to take into account that many women do not want to be the initiators of the communication, they have traditional views on this and regard men as an active side. 

6. But the strategy that surpsises me most is the attitude of some men who need 10 times (or something like that) of confirmation that this particular woman wants to communicate with them. They send women a wink, receive a letter or a wink in return, then send her a postcard, receive something, then wink, wink, wink, after 6 such “signs of attention” most women begin to get tired from this and stop answering. Then they continue to send these signs to the women of his choice. But most Russian girls are already not interested in them. 

7. The last common mistake is that men want to find many women to visit in Russian and only then come, but in reality women who were interested in them loose interest after some time and search for somebody else, men continue their search in the attempt to find more ladies, but again, some ladies do not want to wait for him unknown amount of time and after some time when he does not answer when he can come they stop being interested in him. It is an endless process for them.

The first type - “Pure and Ingenuous” 

Girls like this usually put in their questionnaires some unprofessional photos of low quality. You can hardly scrutinize their faces in these pictures, although they help you to observe the girl’s life and surroundings represented with a nice sense of humour. They miss the biggest part of the formal columns but write something funny and deeply personal in the long answers. Suchlike girls look for close and warm relations. They are sensitive, natural and do not demand much of a man. To the positive aspects of marriage with such a girl one can refer her warm attachment to the man she loves. She doesn’t aim to demonstrate her advantages and influence and is able to admire sincerely. Such a girl makes the person beside her feel a real man. To the negative aspects of the girls of this type we can refer their high demand in communication. Usually they don’t exhaust themselves with thorough learning of foreign languages and being abroad they start to miss contacts with people. That can make them depressed and capricious and provokes them to lay some ungrounded claims. 

The second type - “Spectacular and Ambitious” 

The photos of the russian girls like this remind of the covers of fashion magazines. They do not grudge their time and money for the stylists and photographers in their desire to show their success, making photos in expensive clothes or near prestigious cars. They describe all their merits in the questionnaires and demand much. As a rule, girls of this type have achieved something in their life and for this reason their partner is expected to be an active and successful man. To the positive aspects of marriage with such a girl we can refer her spectacular look and ability to show off in a favorable light. Such a girl is a brilliant companion to go out. Moreover, girls like that are very active. They are capable of being not only mothers and wives, but also essential allies in your business. To the negative aspects we should refer their ambitions and careerism. They will not stay home and will rather try to find some sphere of activity to show you their importance and influence. If your affairs by chance fall into decay for some period, they will easily abandon you to take a more successful partner. 

The third type - “Stable and Reliable” 

Photos of the girls like this remind of identification paper headshots. Eventhough there was a professional who worked with them, they all the same look constrained. They conscientiously fill in all the columns of their questionnaires, while their “long answers” are marked with trite expressions. Suchlike girls look for stabile and safe relations. As a rule, their demands are not very high. But, in their desire to feel safe, they are very cautious and choose their second half rather slowly. To the positive aspects of these russian brides we can refer their stability and rationality. They make thrifty and faithful wives and good mothers. They are capable of surviving through hard times and won’t abandon you if your affairs are going wrong. To the negative aspects we should refer their low flexibility and weak capability for adaptation. They are very attached to their parents and friends, usual life and work. It takes them really long to decide to move abroad and to get used to the new surrounding. 

The fourth type - “Artistic and Creative” 

Girls of this type prefer to have photographs of themselves taken against flowery or landscape background. They look very extraordinary and try to be distinguished. They like to attract people’s attention. Their photos are often worked up with the help of computer graphic. They ignore the major part of the formal questions, but write some romantic or philosophical phrases in the long answers. Suchlike girls look for attention and admiration. They approach every question, including the issues of family and personal image, in a creative and non-typical way. To the positive qualities of these women we can refer flexibility of mind and high capability to adapt to the new life conditions. Moreover, they tend to get approval and appreciation, thus they constantly think how to make their husband surprised and delighted. To their negative aspects we can refer their permanent need for attention and appreciation. They like to demonstrate their beauty flirting and coquetting with other men, and if you know what jealousy is, it will be rather hard for you to live with such a girl.

1. Determine your requests to your future Russian bride

Try to understand clearly what you want from your relationship with a Russian woman, your future bride. Set up the priority and choose what is the main criteria of the choice, what you are ready to give in and accept compromise variant. Her profession? The knowledge of your language? Children? Appearance? Something else? In what number should these qualities be present in your bride? Now try to look at this as a whole and think if there are such women at all. Can these qualities be together in one person? Or are they imcompatible?

2. Think what your ideal woman would want from you

Imagine the portraite of “your” woman. Where and how does she live, what is her occupation, and what is she interested in? But the main think is what position a man has in her life and what wants from him, what are her criteria of choice. Are you ready to satisfy the requirements? A girl or a woman has her right, the same as you, to choose. What are you ready to offer to her in exchange for what you want to receive. Some men think that helping a woman to move to their country is enouph to build stable relationship. There are Ukranian and Russian Brides who will be led by this motive, but do you want to have such a wife? If you see that you requirements are unrealistic return to the first paragraph, make less strict your requirements and imagine a girl with less strict requirements.

3. Create a virtual image for yourself

On the site we communicate with virtual people, created by our imagination from pictures, the profile and letters. Think of an image of a man who will be the most attractive for chosen by you a type of a Russian Ladies. What is this image? Is it sensous and spontaneous? Energetic and provoking? Serious and neat? Intellectual and romantic? When you create your image make it a person of integrity. Pictures and answers should not contradict each other and support one idea. Variety on distance more often misinforms and puts on guard than attract. Let other your virtues be seen during more personal communication. But do not be over-diligent in creating your “portrait”. In spite of artistic stylization it should reflect real and significant part of your “I”. Otherwise, during your meeting you will both feel mutual disappointment.

4. Display energy and initiative

There are thousands of profiles online - to wait for a girl who answers your certain criteria can take years. And she can fail other criteria - seriousness, honesty etc. The dating sites are replenished each day. If you like a Russian or Ukrainian girl send a postcard or write a letter or give any other sign of attention. The more Russian Wife you honour with your attention, the more you have chances to find the lady of your dream. Be attentive, talk with her about themes that are interesting to her, ask her about her life. Ask your lady for a telephone number and talk with her on the phone.

5. Do not give up because of failure

How many women, beautiful and nice, have you met at work, in the streets, at friends? And have not met that only one? Have you met with lack of interest or rudeness? And have not you left a hope for a happy meeting? why then after one unsuccessful attempt of virtual acquaintance on a dating site you think this way to be doomed to failure? The search for your second half is a serious and goal-oriented work. Internet is not a lottery and not a fairy country, where wishes come true by themselves. Internet is a possibility to enlarge a circle of search to the world level. Many of our clients want to find a Free Russian Brides becuase they see happiness of their friends who found a wife in Russia. Ask them how serious they were in this. But what if your search does not result in anything? What if girls do not write to you or you do not like those ladies who write to you? It means that you direct your charm not on the women you want or you selected wrong image. Read this recommendation from beginning and change your profile. The main thing - do not give up!